It is very common for new sugar babies to have unrealistic expectations about what these arrangements are, and how long it may take to find something that is a fit. Many women believe by just putting a short profile plus some interesting pictures online, it will automatically make the offers just flow in. Most are in for a disappointment and I believe that is why a good number of Seeking Sugar Daddy UK do not find what they are trying to find and just give up.
Women (and some inexperienced men) think that sugar dating is just like regular dating. In ‘regular’ dating, women in the younger age ranges are used to being pursued by men typically around their particular age group, and everyone gets involved in the usual mating rituals: play hard to get, maybe call the next day or possibly not. I propose that most of these rituals tend not to apply in sugar dating, or maybe they actually do apply they have a twist. The twist would be that the traditional roles get mixed up and sometimes reversed.
Most real sugar daddies are definitely not trying to find a long lasting mate within the traditional sense.They are certainly not trying to find a relationship by which they need to waste time in courting, playing games, and need to bother about the ‘regular’ date stuff. Most are busy men, most are married with families therefore they don’t have enough time to waste. Also, they are not searching for a sugar baby that is inside it only for the investment and sees everything like a score keeping exercise, i.e. the amount of shoes did the sugar daddy get her, the number of trips overseas, how may car payments etc. There needs to be chemistry, compatibility, common interests for the arrangement to work and then for that it is last for virtually any length of time.
In regular dating women in general hold the upper hand, specifically in younger age groups: these are deciding on a mate. Women may date 5 folks once, change their brains on impulse, blow their dates off etc. In sugar dating I believe that fails to apply. A successful man of some means, has his collection of younger attractive women who are pursuing him. I performed an experiment a while ago: I create a profile on the dating website, stating my income range, value and allowance amount. And then I just sat there. Within 1 day I received several emails from some very attractive women from my home town and even from other states. So for 1 posting I purchased a few dozen proposals, and a few pretty revealing pictures to choose that. Not a bad batting average for any casual post on a site.
Real SD’s, especially those who are willing to provide steady financial support, are in short supply. These sugar daddies have ample potential SB’s to choose from and they could be very picky if they would like to. Because of this they don’t waste their valuable time to cope with SB’s that have an entitlement attitude. That kind of attitude may work in regular dating, but a majority of likely is not going to work in sugar dating. Pretty often we hear of sugar babies who call for a certain sum of money just to show up and meet. Doctors and lawyers may be entitled to do this given that they provide a tangible service to their clientele, but that is not the case for any SB. She does not provide any service of tangible value. I think that when she loses the attitude and comes out with an open mind, obviously keeping her self-worth in mind, but open enough to aycymz the possibilities, she will discover that men will be more generous together with her, instead of someone who is much more greedy. And, caution: Any man within his forties or older is experienced enough to inform when someone is trying to foul them.
Take this advise, relax, not let yourself be pressured by reality shows or some other SB’s and you will find that more durable rewards may come your path. Maybe not quickly, but they will with time.